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                  <forename>Dinah Maria</forename>
                  <surname>Craik (née Mulock)</surname>
                  <name type="displayName">Craik, Dinah</name>
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            <publisher>University of Victoria Digital Victorian Periodical Poetry Project</publisher>
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            <note>Poet attribution: Dinah Craik, <title level="m">Thirty Years, Being Poems Old and New</title>, Macmillan and Co., 1880, pp. 170-4. (AC)</note>
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                     <incipit>You said, last night, you did not think</incipit>
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            <head>A Man’s Wooing<hi rendition="#pom_13889_hidden #pom_13889_incid_showInline">.</hi>
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               <l><hi rendition="#pom_13889_incid_1">You</hi> said, last night, you did not think</l>
               <l>In all the world of <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="a">men</rhyme></l>
               <l>Was one true lover—true alike</l>
               <l>In deed and word and <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="a">pen</rhyme> ;—</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-b-b">
               <l>One knightly lover, constant as</l>
               <l>The old knights, who sleep <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="b">sound</rhyme> :</l>
               <l>Some women, said you, there might be—</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">Not one man</seg> faithful <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="b">found</rhyme> :</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-c-c">
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">Not one man</seg>, resolute to win,</l>
               <l>Or, winning, firm to <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="c">hold</rhyme></l>
               <l>The woman, not all women—sought</l>
               <l>Herself and not her <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="c">gold</rhyme> :</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-d-d">
               <l>Not one whose noble life and pure</l>
               <l>Had power so to con<rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="d">trol</rhyme></l>
               <l>To humble loving loyalty</l>
               <l>Her free, but reverent <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="d">soul</rhyme>,</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-e-e">
               <l>That she beside him gladly moved</l>
               <l>Both sovereign and <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="e">slave</rhyme> ;</l>
               <l>In faith unfettered, homage dear,</l>
               <l>Each claiming what each <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="e">gave</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l rendition="#pom_13889_incid_indent_1"><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">And</seg> then you dropped your eyelids <lb/>white,</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">And</seg> stood, a maiden <rhyme label="e" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">brave</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>Proud, sweet :—unloving and unloved</l>
               <l>Descending to the <rhyme label="e" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">grave</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">I</seg> let you speak, and ne’er replied ;</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">I</seg> watched you for a <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="f">space</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>Until that passionate glow, like youth,</l>
               <l>Had faded from your <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="f">face</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l>No anger show’d I—nor complaint :</l>
               <l>My heart’s beats shook no <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="g">breath</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>Although I knew that I had found</l>
               <l>Her, who brings <seg ana="dvpp:sdEpistrophe">life or <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="g">death</rhyme> ;</seg></l>
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               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">The</seg> woman, true as <seg ana="dvpp:sdEpistrophe">life or death ;</seg></l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">The</seg> love, strong as these <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="h">twain</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>Against which seas of mortal fate</l>
               <l>Beat harmlessly in <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="h">vain</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">“ Not one true man :”</seg> I hear it still,</l>
               <l>Your voice’s clear cold <rhyme label="b" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">sound</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>Upholding all your constant swains</l>
               <l>And good knights under<rhyme label="b" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">ground</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora dvpp:sdVariant">“ Not one true lover :”</seg>——woman, turn ;</l>
               <l>I love you. Words are <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="i">small</rhyme> ;</l>
               <l>’Tis life speaks plain : In twenty years</l>
               <l>Pethaps you may know <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="i">all</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l>I seek you. You alone I seek :</l>
               <l>All other women, <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="j">fair</rhyme></l>
               <l>Or wise, or good, may go their way,</l>
               <l>Without my thought or <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="j">care</rhyme>.</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-k-k">
               <l>But you I follow day by day,</l>
               <l>And night by night I <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="k">keep</rhyme></l>
               <l>My heart’s chaste mansion lighted, where</l>
               <l>Your image lies a<rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="k">sleep</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l>Asleep ! If e’er to wake He knows</l>
               <l>Who Eve to Adam <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="l">brought</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>As you to me : the embodiment</l>
               <l>Of boyhood’s dear sweet <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="l">thought</rhyme>,</l>
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               <l rendition="#pom_13889_incid_indent_1">And youth’s fond dream and manhood’s <lb/>hope,</l>
               <l>That still half hopeless <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="m">shone</rhyme></l>
               <l>Till every rootless vain ideal</l>
               <l>Commingled into <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeEye" label="m">one</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l><emph>You ;</emph> who are so diverse from me,</l>
               <l>Yet seem as much my <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="n">own</rhyme></l>
               <l>As this my soul, which formed apart</l>
               <l>Dwells in its bodily <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="n">throne</rhyme> ;—</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-o-o">
               <l>Or rather, for <emph>that</emph> perishes,</l>
               <l>As these our two lives <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="o">are</rhyme></l>
               <l>So strangely, marvellously drawn</l>
               <l>Together from a<rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="o">far</rhyme> ;</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-p-p">
               <l>Till week by week and month by month</l>
               <l>We liker seem to <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="p">grow</rhyme>,</l>
               <l rendition="#pom_13889_incid_indent_1">As two hill streams, flushed with rich <lb/>rain,</l>
               <l>Each into the other <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="p">flow</rhyme>.</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-q-q">
               <l>I swear no oaths, I tell no lies,</l>
               <l>Nor boast I never <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="q">knew</rhyme></l>
               <l>A love-dream—we all dream in youth-</l>
               <l>But waking, I found <emph><rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="q">you</rhyme></emph>,</l>
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               <l>The real woman, whose first touch</l>
               <l>Aroused to highest <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="r">life</rhyme></l>
               <l>My real manhood. Crown it then,</l>
               <l>Good angel, friend, love, <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="r">wife</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l>Imperfect as I am, and you,</l>
               <l>Perchance, not all you <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="s">seem</rhyme>,</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">We two together</seg>, garner up</l>
               <l>Our past’s bright, broken <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="s">dream</rhyme></l>
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               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">We two together</seg> dare to look</l>
               <l>Upon the years to <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="t">come</rhyme>,</l>
               <l>As travellers, met in far countrie,</l>
               <l>Together look towards <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeEye" label="t">home</rhyme>.</l>
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               <l>Come home, the old tales were not false,</l>
               <l>Yet the new faith is <rhyme label="q" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">true</rhyme> ;</l>
               <l rendition="#pom_13889_incid_indent_1">Those saintly souls who made men <lb/>knights</l>
               <l>Were women such as <rhyme label="q" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">you</rhyme>.</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-u-u">
               <l>For the great love that teaches love</l>
               <l>Deceived not, ne’er <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeFeminine" label="u">deceives</rhyme> :</l>
               <l>And she who most believes in man</l>
               <l>Makes him what she <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeFeminine" label="u">believes</rhyme>.</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-v-v">
               <l>Come ! if you come not, I can wait ;</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">My</seg> faith, like life, is <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="v">long</rhyme> ;</l>
               <l><seg ana="dvpp:sdAnaphora">My</seg> will—not little ; my hope much ;</l>
               <l>The patient are the <rhyme type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine" label="v">strong</rhyme>.</l>
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            <lg rhyme="-c-c">
               <l>Yet come, ah come ! The years run fast,</l>
               <l>And hearths grow swiftly <rhyme label="c" type="dvpp:rhymeMasculine dvpp:rhymeCrossStanza">cold</rhyme>—</l>
               <l rendition="#pom_13889_incid_indent_1">Hearts too : but while blood beats in <lb/>mine</l>
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               <l>And so before you it lies bare—</l>
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